Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
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| Title |
Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You |
| Publication Type |
Book |
| Pub Year |
2003 |
| Authors |
Evans, P. |
| Publisher |
Adams Media Corporation |
| Keywords |
control, false self, identity, psychic prison
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| Notes |
psychic prison"Other people's definitions of us are not just absurd--if unchallenged, they erect prison walls around us. As they rise higher, the light of awareness fades. The world darkens. We lose freedom, safety, confidence, conviction, and sometimes ourselves." (p. 77)
identity"When people unwittingly form their identity out of one imposed on them by others, how they appear to others becomes an all-important barometer by which to validate their existence. In a backwards construction of self, there is no three-dimensionality, no depth, no space for future evolution and integration with the world. Human empathy, warmth, allowance for error--all that is considered to be humanity itself--may find no niche, no accommodation." (p. 54)
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| URL |
http://books.google.com/books?id=4vKdrt8zcBkC |
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